Wes:

Most people on this bb would kill to have what you have right now. I know how hard (sorry, no pun intended , but I did a double take after I typed that and then it stood out like a sore thumb, jeez, no pun intended there either, I better quit ) it is when the WAW gives you some physical contact but does not want to go any further. Remember the Deida view of when your W says ..."let's be friends", she is leaving out "for now" at the end of that.

Just keep the positive interactions going and encourage hugs etc if she initiates it. You are our guinea pig here, we want to see what a pursuer can get away with. I wish you the best.

UD


The 3 laws of DBing: 1. PMA is critical to DBing. 2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical. 3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.