I'm honored that you dropped in Sage. I do need to say to my ex "I'm proud of you" because I truly am. She does need to hear that. Her PMA is really low. In reality I've never seen her less self-assured since I've known her. She's focused on negative things physically (ie my face is so wrinkly..."are my thighs huge?") , poo-poo's compliments ("No I'm not" if I say she's intelligent). It is so different I don't know if it's an act or if her self-esteem is currently low.

Actually, being the pursuer that I am I already covered the post-test base. When I was on the phone earlier I asked her to call me when she was done to tell me how it went. I said if she got back soon enough I'd take her out for a celebratory drink for being done with the studying and worrying (even though she still will worry about the score).

Do you really think I'd miss an opportunity to pursue Sage? My problem is finding the right time not to pursue. But I did need to remember to not only think something...but to express it to her. Thanks for reminding me.

Sage if you answer again....how are you doing? Long time no hear.

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt