The book you want is called "The Way of the Superior Man". It is a bit off the wall and a little counter-culture and non-PC. Dont let your W read it or your posterior will be grass if she is even remotely a feminist. But it seems like your W has a strong feminine quality and it explains how men can relate to women like that without losing their edge.
Good to see you have bounced back! All PMA crashes only last 12-hours or so......
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.