Come on, you are kidding, arent you? There is NO WAY IN H that you are quitting. You are (by your own admission) the biggest pursuer on this forum. Then, you will also fall the hardest because you are going to get your expectations really high and then an R talk will happen. You are only human. I agree with Gabriel 100% man.
I love reading Deida and he says something about a woman's thinking- what a woman says is just what she is feeling at the moment. It has nothing to do with what she sees happening in the future. At that moment when you cornered her she said she is happy where she is. Duh, of course!!
Look at her actions Wes, she cant stay away from you. I would actually smile to myself silently if my W told me what she is saying to you instead of getting all upset (yeah, right, you are happy where you are, and that is why you come around here to be with me all the time?). You know what, Wes, it would not hurt for you to enjoy her company, but perhaps could get you closer to your goal if you seriously GALed and put your masculinity one gear higher. Do anything, work out, put on muscle, use pheromones, anything.
Come on, dust yourself off, get your bloody PMA up and smile as she cuts through your heart. You are doing great with your contacts with your W, just dont let your expectations get in your way. I have been in that mode for 2 years, my W would not touch me for that time, but in the past couple of weeks there is a lot of accidental touching. This is a marathon, not a sprint.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
