Re your comment: "It's odd, but doesn't it seem that these walk-aways are really critical? It might sometimes be in a teasing way but there is often a putdown somewhere in there."
yes, i have seen evidence of that in my W as well. It seems like, particularly since I have taken charge of the house and seem to be managing my life well, including single-parenting my D3, anything that slips through the cracks (e.q. I applied bleach on my D3's shirt the other day to remove a stain like an idiot instead of stain-remover - used the wrong stick and she teased me about it) gets a putdown. The thing to do is to act tough and at worst give a smirk when they do that. I am using the formula "WWBPD" (What Would Brad Pitt Do?) under such situations.
Please do not pursue this weekend....It is going to be hard but let her initiate. Good luck.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
and she teased me about it) gets a putdown. The thing to do is to act tough and at worst give a smirk when they do that. I am using the formula "WWBPD" (What Would Brad Pitt Do?) under such situations.
