My vote is to go with the positive interactions as well. And I should be telling you the opposite because I have been in this for two years. Actually the first year does not count because I was a basket-case and acting like an angry self-righteous imbecile that whole year. Not very inviting to my W to fall back in love with me. I have slowly clawed my way back and things were improving and then the pressure of the two-year mark caused a kaboom event for her and she asked for D. You have no choice and in any case you dont have it that bad, why not enjoy your W's company and let her enjoy yours. The million dollar question and the reall key to your success will be : can you keep your expectations under check and apply no pressure at all and be entirely selfless, treat this as your atonement for all your past sins (from singing the neighborhood cat's tail to hurting your W)? That is very hard.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
