How is it we can see so much after the storm, but we could not see it coming?
Quote: My ex-W in her head believes that she doesn't want anything more than a friend to do things with occasionally. She enjoys being around me as long as there isn't too much pressure. But it is for her own gratification. My wants don't come into it. She feels guilty for how things shook out. But I truly believe that she has went over the reasons she left and sees the whole marriage thing as completely unworkable. Plus she doesn't feel "in love". It is essentially no different than when she walked away.
This, I believe as well, is the core of the R they have or want with us. No pressure. No intimate intentions. Simply being.
Can we live with this? We really only have two choices.
