Quote: I am determined to get more in touch with my own sexuality. Yes, I want to meet my H's needs and what's good for my H is good for the R. But I'm also determined to see that it's good for me too. I think that thinking selfishly will be most helpful in the long run.
This is the absolute best thing you can do! Keep doing this! Figure out what you want in yuor sex life! Make sure to that some of the sexual encounters are geared towards your fantasies. Sexual confidence is EVERYTHING in a relationship. Keep up the good work!!!