DL... I admire the way you are working to improve your SL by making it a priority and tuning into your H, as well as paying attention to your own sexuality. You don't seem to have as much of the anger and resentment many of us on the board have struggled with.
I think you'll find PM an interesting read...I love his optimism and his statements about intimacy developing in middle age with maturity.
Congrats on your nice weekend...hope H feels better soon!
