Keep wresting with this question: Do I want the M or do I want the R with my W?
My W is going thru some developmental stuff that may include gunk about an evolved woman not needing to be 'trapped' in a M. I'm not bothering to go there. Instead I'm busy making myself into so great a catch that W is starting to notice that I have lots to offer. She's also noticed that other women are noticing this as well, and is starting to get pulled back, just to a friend state mind you, but since friendship is the basis for any longterm R, what a great place to move to!
Try to avoid all A$$umptions - especially about her intentions, b/c they are rarely accurate.
