Actually your situation is not unusual; I've many situations where couples were separated for a VERY long time. Something I confess to not understanding. If the WAS wants out of the R, then why not proceed with D and at least not leave the other person in constant doubt?
And another thing I do NOT understand and I see it in your interactions and others. Why does the WAS want to have constant (read weekly) interactions, such as family outings or meals together or other events? XW and I have NO dinners together or do not get together for coffee or lunch and we do not invite each other over for meals or to go out if one of us is taking the kids out.
We see her at school functions and birthdays, but no dinners, family events, etc and she wants nothing to do with my parents.
Well, she just dropped off kids and no mention of trip, so I'm letting it go.
