Just Married Last Year and W Wants To Call It Off

[Rob904]

Let me get this straight. Your wife doesn't work, you have no kids, and she spends all her time on the internet with an OM who doesn't even know she's married????

Correct, correct, and correct. It's only been my 3rd month of DBing, but I'm confident that I've been applying 180's rather well, and GAL rather well as well. Believe me in regards to the GAL aspect. I find it easier to maintain my sanity when I am away from the home. I feel as if I have been able to detach from her rather well, but truthfully, I still don't see too much improvement.

I asked in a previous post if living separately would be one alternative to our current situation, but the only reason I am leery of that course of action is because it makes the possibility of the big D all too real, imo. The major problem I have with my current situation with her and I still living together, is that I feel as if I am perpetuating the problem by allowing her to still be here.

Although I hate the thought of living separately, I think that that is what the situation may call for. I would welcome any other opinions in regards to this predicament I am in.