Rob, sorry about your sitch, but this I will say...sounds like your W is a confused, unhappy person right now. She said she was "numb", and I personally don't think any R she starts will stand a chance, OM or anyone else. Messed up people who hurt others as they are deperatly trying to find happiness just make more messes as they go along. My ex-bf has done the same thing...every R he has, family, friends, ex-w, and now me, is just a mess. Until she figures it all out, go and GAL as I am trying to do. In the meantime, if they come to their senses and get help, great, and if they don't, we are better off in the long run. Good luck.
