Anna,

Very good points there! I appreciate it. For my sitch, it would definitely help me, but I'm afraid she may view this as the beginnings to an end, which I defintely do NOT want to do. I guess I will stick to my guns for the moment, and make HER make the decision for herself. Maybe this will help develop my inner child (oops Anna! ) a bit more...

God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And Wisdom, to know the difference...