Hi Kim,

I have to agree with you. The feeling of being taken for granted just compunds an already difficult situation to begin with. I always have to remind myself that if things are going to change, it will have to be through my actions in which I trigger a change in my spouse, not the other way around. Easier said than done...right? In any event, all of you here on this forum will be my lifeline for a while, and hopefully I can offer my support as well. That's what we're all here for right?

God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And Wisdom, to know the difference...