Thanks for your suggestions. I really appreciate it. I think I will keep my wedding ring on, as well as all our wedding pictures up. I think I overreacted tonight. In my previous post, I stated that I thought that she was becoming a bit more receptive. Well, we had dinner at home, and out of the blue, she said to me, "You know, I don't want you to feel as if you have to hang around the house just because I'm here. If you want to go out with your friends, don't let me stop you.". I had several reactions to this.
First off, I get the idea that I'm not employing LRT to the best of my ability. I do occasionally get weak and try and plan dates together with her, and I know this can only serve to push her back. What confuses me however, is that she still says she misses me, and when we hug, I'm always the first to break it off, but at times she doesnt want to let go. I'm definiteley on the roller coaster ride that LRT is associated with. One day good, the next day bad...so on and so forth. I'm not sure how much longer I can take this, and the sad thing is, it's only been 2 weeks since the wife said she wanted to call it quits.
God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And Wisdom, to know the difference...