There is a discussion today in "Separated" about the wedding ring issue. I personally can't imagine taking mine off, but I also check his hand every time he comes over. His is still on, and I always feel a wave of relief. It would certainly get his attention, though.
The wedding pictures... I'd do what feels natural. Mine are all over my house, but they don't cause me pain. So I leave them up. It feels like taking them down would be nothing more than spite. But that's only me.
Really, both depend on you. They are definitely acts that would get her attention. But if you only do it in order to get her attention, then they might seem petulant. If you want to free yourself of some of the symbols of your marriage, and want to free yourself of the memory being shoved in your face, then absolutely do it for yourself.
Bear in mind you're talking to a girl who won't even change her answering machine from being his voice saying all of our names. I'm attached to symbols and that's not necessarily a good thing.
