As stated before, I am currently employing the LRT approach as my current DB tactic. One of the suggestions made for this approach is "Getting a Life". I have no complaints with this in regards to the added self esteem this instills in ones self, however, do any of you think this can also be damaging to recovery efforts as well? Could it possibly be perceived to the spouse that he/she is no longer important? Currently, I spend very little time at home since my W still lives with me. I am still cordial and kind with her, but at times I feel as if she thinks that she is no longer important to me (which is DEFINITELY what I do NOT want her to assume). Maybe my approach to the LRT is all wrong, or maybe I'm just crazy in the head, but I'd appreciate any thoughts or suggestions on this...
God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And Wisdom, to know the difference...
