Thanks Anna! Those are great suggestions! I have been fortunate enough that she has not asked any of those questions since I last posted. A small glimmer of hope occured today. Before I left for work, my W gave me a hug and she said, and I quote, "I sorta miss you...". I had to remind myself that I am still in LRT mode, so I kept the affection brief (although I must admit, it was hard to do). I know I don't have to tell any of you this, but it's definitely more difficult executing the DB techniques as it is to understanding them. I know one thing however. Even though I am a new member, I think I would have called it quits on day one had I not found this website. The stories I read from everyone are so inspirational. My heart goes out to all of you, and I pray for a speedy resolution to your situation.
God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And Wisdom, to know the difference...