Just Married Last Year and W Wants To Call It Off

[Rob904]

OK....my wife has confirmed that she is basically still living with me out of convenience (not in those exact words). She is still in contact with this OM, and currently I am still trying to employ the LRT method. I make no mention of this person AT ALL, but I know that they still talk. Certain questions she asks me are difficult for me to answer without doing a backslide. I was hoping I can get several suggestions as to how to respond. Here are a few of those questions:

Have you told your parents yet?
Do you hate me for still being here while I'm talking to this guy?
Why do you still love me? I was such a horrible person to you?

I read somewhere that I should't believe anything that is said, and less than 50% of what I see, since my W is still in a hurt state. She said earlier in our marriage we just suffered a major disconnect (about 4 months ago), and she has never been able to feel the same way for me again, though she has said she has tried.

My apolgies in advance for being so selfish and not responding to any other threads yet, but once I figure out the direction I really need to go with my current situation, I can hopefully be a more contributing member to other posts. I wish all of you nothing but the best for your current situation.