Jo, Oh no, you didn't offend me, I feel your pain from your depression of the past because of seeing XW being depressed. I always admire your thoughts, I am sorry that I didn't explain my feelings correctly. I have never been offended by what you have written, mainly because I know that you are a very caring and fair person.
There was a few times I felt offended by some of the other members, after thinking things through they were correct and I should not have been offended.