I did not mean to be presumptuous. I am sure that you have been in this so long that you have made certain decisions and set certain boundaries that you have found essential. Sorry to bug you about it. Just trying to present a different perspective for whatever it is worth. Your rationale for the actions that you are taking sounds appropriate. BTW, a friend of mine (not on the bb or anything) has had a similar roller-coaster ride with her WAH connecting sexually with her and withdrawing multiple times. It ended in a divorce but then a few months after that he came back. They are working on reconciling right now and it is still shaky because of his fears. But my gut feeling is they will make it. I hope you do too.
Stay strong.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
