I am going to question some of yoru responses to your XH just to learn from you/ dig into your mind:
"He said he has been working on my website even though I told him not to" Hmmm....Is AOS his LL? If so, what would be the goal in refusing his efforts to reconnect with you?
"He made conversation about my work (something he hardly ever discusses)"- Is he doing a 180 on you or is he expressing hi LL? Again, why rebuff his efforts?
"I am trying to be ice queenish." - what is the rationale for this?
Just playing devil's advocate and trying to learn some strategies from you.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
