In fact, I want the dr's to just cut the damn gland out all together, which they can do, but H is like 'NO!' and my friends are telling me not to do it so I haven't yet.
Re the kids, DD4 was born after he left so she's never really known us together. She's very clingy towards me because it's usually just me and her. She hits her sisters if they try to touch me. I am 'hers' in her eyes.
