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Andy as he is now was not the Andy of the marriage. Then he was very respectful of my mothering. He supported me in my pregnancies and he was great at the births and even cried when DD2 was born.

He let me make the majority of the childcare decisions, even when I was in uni. He was a great husband, very thoughtful and caring. Even after DD4 was born, when we were separated, he cleaned my entire house for me, did all the laundry, made me dinner etc.

(He even carried the bucket with the placenta in it, that's good penance for him! ) and he stayed with me all night on the night she was born, because I was too sick to look after her.

He has only got this 'I don't give a damn what you think' attitude since the bomb and more so since he 'won' custody.
In my opinion I think he has depression, as well.

I would hope that if we reunited, he would respect me like he did in the M.

My real issue is, could I trust him?

I can't answer that one.

Jo.