Hey there Jo,
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- I don't see the point in re-marriage to another person because I made those promises once before and ended up D, so there's nothing to say it wouldn't happen again with that someone new.
- I have no desire whatsoever for a new R with anyone else and if this doesn't work, then I am prepared to be single for the rest of my life ...
- I would only risk my heart again because it's him and he is the father of my children.



All eerily familiar thoughts. Several months ago, I would have thought singleness to be a doomed, awful fate. Since I kicked in with lots of GAL work and attitude changes, I see much hope for happiness regardless. Your book is just a small sign of the success and positive influence on this world that your one life can have.
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While we are both still single, and since he has admitted he still loves me, I am not closing the door.


I would be doing cartwheels if W ever admitted that. His actions seem to speak this as well, in his own way.

By the way, Jo, don't believe that hogwash about odds being stacked against you in terms of a future R. H is not your only option - he is your choice. You are a beautiful, attractive, educated woman who is now yet again an AUTHOR. H sees this in you, hence his insecurity. I believe him in this regard, that you could have plenty of suitors if you so desired. Let me know if you ever need me to fly across the pond to beat them off with my 2 x 4!

Gabriel


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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