Sorry, I am not sufficiently familiar with your whole story and I apologize if I made too many assumptions about what you have been through. Please, ignore my comments, I don't know anything.
OG_Lou:
Thanks for the clarification. I am very interested in Jo's history and will go back and read her posts.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.