HairDog, BB is pleasant to be around most of the time but she goes through spells where men are controling, men want to limit women's spirit, and women don't need men for anything. I just wish she would give specific examples what she sees wrong about men/wonen relationships. But she rerely cites an example I can relate to. She will cite some drunk encounter but I only have 1 beer about once a month.
You can tell I'm feeling a bit on the end of my rope these days. Sorry things are not going better for you. I have hope for a couple of days then something happens or does not happen correctly and most of the progress is washed down the tube. Reading the books and posting here has helped me sooth my feelings better when I get upset, and I have learned how to ask for more of what I want, but it is frustrating at times to see the little real progress we have made.
It's good I am not with Mrs HD and her "you can have sex when you quit being needy or don't want it so bad." I think I would have had a trial seperation by now. It seems that is the only thing some women and men understand.
Some men get angry (men's speciality) and I think women's speciality is control. I call it gate keeping. Women (and some men) control (when, how often, time of day etc) when the sex gate opens and closes.
If you see me doing something wrong or right let me know.
