Slowly Moving Forward

[kaydeekay]

Your H is sitting on the fence and is very confused. My therapist told me that my H was on the fence and very confused but he didn't want to be on it alone on that fence; therefore, he would drag me along with his confusion. She told me to set boundaries for myself and not allow him to pull me along (was very hard to do). You can ask him all the questions right now and will not get a straight answer. The answer I would get was "I don't know what I want...I'm so confused."

My advice would be to let him have his space. The more you ask about your M the more he may pull away.

Kaydeekay