Hi Cat - Thanks for posting to me . I really need to hear this now about the trust. My H has meetings today and I fear exFF (co-worker) will be at the meetings too. I hope my spazzing out the other day doesn't lead them to speak. Yes, this piecing is a s l o w process. I've been dbing since '03...one day at a time.
Take Care, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."