Hi Deb - Thanks for checking back with me. Last night did not go well. H is livid with me. He's giving me the silent treatment. He slept on the couch and this morning on his way out he left his cell phone and I said something and he shot back that I can just answer it. So, I am in back off mode. I even stopped at the store last night for some stuff he likes before I got home. I did say that I was sorry and that how many times do I have to pay for 1 mistake this am as he left and said the stuff about me answering his cell phone. I won't say anymore about it. After all the crap and way he acted with the mlc, I mess up and he's not even speaking to me.

I hope this hasn't caused him to go back deeper into the tunnel. I already had plans tomorrow without him and Sunday was a social thing for both us but I better be prepared for him not to go just in case.

what a great friday

According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."