Hi Slowly - Yes, Quality Time is real important for me & H. It is my #1 LL and before this mlc/bomb/etc. I did not think it was important to H. Now, I am seeing it is. His primary LLs are AOS, WOA, PT. With our opposite schedules it is really trying to get the QT in. We just got back from a trip together and it was really, really nice. Now, back to reality and opposite schedules
Re: the fixing of H - I think this is something I have come a long way in working on. My Hs drinking is the main one as his health (trying to get him to go to Dr. appts.). Another big one is his job. He is still complaining about it but does nothing to fix it. I have come a long way in not interferring with this but it's trying when he is complaining, not happy, drinking but does nothing to fix it
Thanks for your insightful questions! Congrats on your resignation...that is awesome
Take Care, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
