Hi WCW & Sikan - Thanks for stopping by my thread Work is still pretty crazy and a co-worker was let go so more work for the rest of us

WCW - Your message definitely calmed me down and I have re-directed my energies from that cell bill and exff. I am trying to focus on all the good and baby steps, etc.

Sikan - Thanks for sharing your similar sitch with your H. It helps me to know I am not alone in this DB process. I think that is really positive that your H answered the cell in front of you and showed you that unidentified #. I too feel better when my H is more open and forthcoming. Sometimes it's hard for me not to revert back to my quizzing attitude which got me here in the first place.

I like what you wrote about the trust issues being with Hs not us:

Remember, these trust issues lie with our H's. These are their issues and their issues alone. Unfortuantely, being in love with them means that we need to deal with them but that does NOT mean we take them on as our own.

Well, I do need to wrap up more work but wanted to say hi and hope you all have a Happy Thanksgiving!

I'll catch up more after the long weekend

Take Care,
SP

According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."