Hey there - I completely understand the runaway expectations, the impatience for progress and the urge to de-mystify strange behaviour Every few days I remind myself that this means I am still focusing on him, and not on me, and guess what? When I do focus on me, he does the same! One lesson I learnt is that when I have friends who 'celebrate' me, he becomes more gushy. Its like if someone else appreciates me, he is happier to do the same. Have not figured this out
Every few days I remind myself that this means I am still focusing on him, and not on me, and guess what? When I do focus on me, he does the same! One lesson I learnt is that when I have friends who 'celebrate' me, he becomes more gushy. Its like if someone else appreciates me, he is happier to do the same. Have not figured this out 
