Just wanted to list some positives:

1) Spent whole weekend with H
2) Had a nice date on Sunday
3) H taking care of the dog more lately
4) H called me from the road asking if I wanted take-out
5) H sought me out this am before leaving for work

I am finding that if I don't list positive things, my mind can downward spiral quickly.

Trying to deal with the fact that H's ff is still a co-worker (but mainly at diff. location now) and I will have to deal with her in the future. There's an event in Oct. and of course she said she will be there. Not surprised as she appears to jump at the chance to be anywhere H will be.

Work is in busy season so that keeps my mind from wandering and checking H's e-mail but less time to post so I read and if time permits post something.

Take care all,
SP


According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."