Why won't the universe leave me and my H alone!!! I guess I have an attitude this morning...Me & my H are planning a trip for this winter that involves a sporting activity. Well, I had mentioned it to my GMF a while back. Forward to last night at dinner with my GMF and he said he would like to go and could I e-mail him the info. I was stunned to say the least. I will not be forwarding him the info period. He is a former co-worker who I go to dinner with about once a month. How do I brooch this if he brings it up again? I was thinking of saying it was a second honeymoon for H and I so that would discourage him? I feel bad for GMF as he still lives with his parents and has never had a SO. How do I gently handle this? I am really shocked that he even said this. He had had 2 drinks last night so part of me wants to chalk it up to that and forget about it. Another annoyance of this trip is that annoying FF has said she is going there too to do sporting event. I have no idea if she planned this after hearing that H was doing it or not. Now, what had seemed like a nice get away for H & I is turning into a nightmare
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
