What if you find something? What then? Will you confront him and ruin what you have built?

Stop snooping, it doesn't do anything other than hurt you in the long run. I know it's hard, it was VERY hard for me. I only did it occasionally, but it was still hard to stop. And the risks are too high. I feel for you.

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