I am sitting on a 24 hour rule issue so I am writing a list to help me NOT bring up an annoying FF of my H from his work. I have met her many times. She no longer works at his location but still works for the company. He saw her the other night at work and told me about it (which is a positive). I don't want to make a big deal about an e-mail I saw from her that seemed flirty. I do not believe my H is doing anything wrong but I think this FF is bad news. Her H divorced her last year and I think she has always been rather flirty with male co-workers. I don't know the specifics of why he left her but shall we say she seems to have a roving eye. Anyway, here is my list:
1) Things are going really well with H right now don't want to bring up FF and cause a rift between us 2) She no longer works at his location so he doesn't see her at work as much 3) She had a MF which she brought to a couple of the last work functions - hope he becomes BF 4) She is not physically my H's type. Not particularly attractive and I have seen pics of all my Hs exes before us. He has referred to her as a sister type before. 5) Last function we were at we didn't even mingle with her. Sometimes she glops onto us if she has no date and acts flirty with my H. She is one of those FF that has more male friends and always wants to be the center of conversations. I am tired of wasting my precious energy on her so I will end here.
Any feedback or input would be great!
SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
