Hi Rottzilla - Thanks for stopping by Unfortunately, the piece of paper was gone this am. It had her internal work extensions on it too. If it appears on the counter again I will think about saying what you suggested. He is one of those guys that doesn't like being asked too many questions. Gets defensive and then tries to mind read what I was asking and will put an accusing twist to it.
Will your H be posting soon? I saw you had a thread in SSM but I have not had a chance to read it.
Take Care, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."