Hi Slowly - Thanks for your feedback. I think it makes sense and I will really try to hold off saying anything. I was in the process of the "24 hour" of not doing anything stupid. One of my pre-bomb problems was jealousy and always making mountains out of molehills.
I will focus on the positives and be open to giving him advice/help with the job switch as he asks for it
Have a nice night - is it bedtime there???zzzzzzzzzzzz
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."