Hi Everyone - I'm getting nervous. I have a work event of my H's to attend and I feel frumpy. I have some extra lbs. that I gained back from original bomb 2 years ago. Also the stress is causing me to break out and then nerves or something is causing me to pick at the breakouts.

I need a quick makeover of sorts. I don't even know what I will wear as my dressy clothes are a bit tight. I have about 10 lbs. to lose before I will feel better about my body.

A few positives:
1) Had a forwarded e-mail from H (no note but at least it was an e-mail)
2) H continues with AOSs and I am trying to give him WOA but what else besides "Thank you for doing X"???
3) H showed me something from work that he wrote last night and I tried to give WOA

He is still very withdrawn/flat/mlc. I am wondering if he is in that revisiting of all stages of mlc that comes towards reconnection? I thought he was finished but now with this withdrawing again and no PT it makes me wonder?

Thanks for any and all feedback
SP

According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."