Acting as if went a long way. Spending quality time together outside of the house. Increasing PT and AOS. Those are his top 2 LL. I think he likes WOA too but I have never been too good at that. Guess, I should also re-read LL.
Well, this weekend we have 2 days of QT planned so I am hoping that will help get us back on track. Maybe I should up the "as if" factor. Since the re-bombs I have retreated and maybe I shouldn't? He isn't interested in ML but maybe I can give him a back rub. He really likes those. I asked him the other day and he said no thanks
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
