Former poster - Thought M was back on track

[sage]

5) be able to slowly get back to the progress we had made - how???

What worked the first time?

6) give H plenty of space - don't persue, etc. Although, I am not sure of this as during the bombs he said we live separate lives (we work different schedules)?

In my sitch, my h likes emotional space (like no R talks) but also warms up if I am in close proximity. so, after fights I often go do my own thing but then gradually move my physical self closer to him (read in the same room, etc).

That's ME...what works for you?

Sage