Quote: Do you think there must be something bigger to trigger this than just this sticky?
Not necessarily.
I was reading old threads and one of my last threads (so it would have been about 8 - 12 months ago) contained a backslide that I had forgotten all about...it was basically a situation where I had questioned h in a way that brought back my mistrust of him, etc, and his reaction was so primal it was amazing. It was as though nothing had been accomplished at all and that we were back at square one....now, we rallied from it pretty quickly but I think the wounds are seriously there for both parties for a long time.
So, have you reread DB/DR? Wanna get started with some goals?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.