Coach wrote: ----------------------- If she wants to read, she can find resources just like I did. By the end of the summer, I will reassess with her... -----------------------
And exactly why would you want to wait on confronting her or giving her resources that she needs?
She is going to do what she has done in the past - again. Simply put, she learned nothing from the past encounter other than to keep it more secret next time.
You have to confront these issues head on. They will not get better on their own. They will fester and rot; causing further damage.
Please get the "Not Just Friends" book and do what I suggested with it.
Quote: -------------------- ... that was just a crappy thing to say. Anyway, I smiled and left. --------------------
Wrong response. The correct response, done without anger is: "Wife, you really hurt me saying that. I don't appreciate it." Then you kiss her on the cheek and tell her goodbye.
Lesson number one: Stop avoiding conflict. Lesson number two: Learn how to handle conflict.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
