I am short of time right now, but here is something for you to think about.
You need to learn the difference between need and want in relation to your wife.
The right kind of distance serves your purpose, the wrong kind of distance drives her away.
You may want your wife, but for both of your sakes, you must learn that you don't need her. That is a balancing act between being needy and standing on your own.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.