NR, I will get that book too. Gosh I have a lot of reading to do.
Yes, I am like you in that I get defensive. My W is the same. We are both stubborn people. She has closed me out for now and that is very hard for me to handle. I have learned that complaining about it to her has only made it worse, but I am a sloooow learner. The who has hurt who more talk has happened more than once, but I know it serves no purpose.
