Coach wrote: ----------------- Do I run a risk of being going overboard with this kind of behavior? I sure do feel better about myself this way!! The feeling of anxiety is gone. I feel more hopeful. I think I can do this until she falls for me again, or I don't feel hurt anymore.
Did I do a good job? -----------------
Yup, you did good!
What is to be overboard about? Did you come across as needy or desperate, or where you a man with a plan?
Sounds like the latter to me.
It is a lot easier for your spouse to respond to confidence, especially in areas where that has been lacking, and is sorely needed. Good common sense.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
