Sounds great! I would, however, watch for the urge to get too hasty. No matter how it looks to you at times, this will take a while. She might be quick to expect you to react the way you have before. My wife does this. She is so used to me reacting one way, that it is hard for her to let go of that and look at me in the now. Again, you should start looking at things in the present, and not toward the future. There is a place in the UL book that talks about becoming non reactive to the point that you really don't have an oppinion on the outcome of a situation. This allows you to be happy when good things happen, but not be disappointed when other stuff happens. This also helps to keep you from reacting negatively about the outcome of a situation and causing further problems by causing the " I'm pissed off" chain reaction.
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
