Kim,
Hey, good to hear from you! Refreshing to hear good news

You and your H have a mutual agreement going with this guy friend of yours and I'd keep the friend--can't get enuf friends. You have all the info and know what is best!

The OW thing will be hard. My H is thinking of going back to his. Whatever. It is some big hook they have in these men. I don't get it. Just be honest with your H and that leaving OW alone part of the change has to come from H. It would be nice if he could become totally disgusted with her. Time will tell. That is where you being so totally awesome will win out!
Have fun in TN. ROADTRIP-yeah. Let us know how it goes. Focus on FUN.
Midwest